“I got bullied as a kid, I turned out fine, it teaches you to be tough”
“My family was verbally abusive, I turned out fine, it teaches you to argue your point”
“I didn’t get vaccinated, I turned out fine, my kids don’t need those shots”
In your opinion you turned out fine, and you are the one defining “fine”. If you are still breathing you think you turned out fine.
Because we all have such a narrow perspective on our own life it’s difficult to know if we could have turned out better or had our life made easier by not having to experience the negative that we now think is fine.