This is an epic post about the state of our industry written by Elizabeth Naramore.

Some days, it’s hard to feel awesome about the tech world we live in, isn’t it? There is a constant outpouring of rage, criticism, harassment, misogyny, and personal attacks. We love to disagree and judge and publicly shame for mistakes, and we shake our fists in the air and scream when we think someone’s wrong. We thrive on this sea of negativity we have created. Sadly, when something truly inspirational does happen, its beauty is criticized, discarded, and drowned.

The whole post is quote worthy and you should read it.

NYT:

On Tuesday night, the first game of the 2014 World Series drew just 12.2 million viewers to Fox, making it the lowest-rated Game 1 on record. Game 2 on Wednesday night fared somewhat better, with 12.9 million people tuning in.

For me it’s the start time. With an 8pm start time, that means at the earliest it will be off is around 11:00.

On the odd chance, it is a good game then it could go longer. So I’d rather just not see any of it, instead of missing the most exciting part.

There’s more to your finances than just the math. Your habits, your tendencies, and your personal psychology all play a role. You’re not just saving money when you set aside cash, you’re setting aside habit capital. And everything grows over time. — Eric Ravenscraft —

Found this on Lifehacker today.

Dear Morning

I glance out my window, scared to open my blinds. I know that once I do I will see how beautiful you are, how I will get lost in the chirping and glimmering dew.

I’ll have to wait to enjoy you later when my writing is done. I only have a few paragraphs. It shouldn’t take long.

I sit down at my desk. Start up my computer with the best equipment you can buy. I open a new document, the wonderful clean slate.

All I see is a blinking cursor, nothing is coming to mind. I should brainstorm, maybe that will inspire.

The light bulb is far from me. I’m left sitting thinking about everything else. I start a mindmap, that quickly becomes a maze.

Oh morning maybe I should come visit you, and step away from this artificial light. It’s only a few paragraphs though, it shouldn’t take long.

I hear the kids awaken. My mind drifts to them. Now it’s breakfast and I can’t focus.

Daddy will you play with me? Not now sweetheart. I only have a few paragraphs, it shouldn’t take long.

I sit and I ponder. Maybe Twitter has inspiration? Maybe Google? I get tangled in a web.

The kids come running, Daddy it’s lunch!

I’m sorry morning, but I have wasted you.

Losing Weight and Feeling Great

The other night my wife and I were watching a photo slideshow and a picture of me on the beach from 2011 popped up. I was honestly amazed and couldn’t believe that’s really how big I was. I decided I would do a before and after picture and post it on instagram. I’m usually hesitant on what I share on social media because I always feel like people will take it the wrong way. I did this not for people to congratulate me but instead to hopefully inspire someone else. Just as I had been inspired.

I did have a few people ask me how I did it and decided to write this post to share my steps. Of course this could just say, eat better and exercise, but that helps no one. We all know that’s all it takes but changing those habits are hard, so hard! Hopefully this gives a little inspiration for you if you are wanting to slim down.

It all started at the beginning of 2012: I weighed 182lbs, I wasn’t sleeping well, I was snoring, and all around I just felt bad. But none of those made me really want to change my life. It wasn’t until I came across a post by Jack McDade which simplified it so much for me:

This is so much easier than following a diet plan. I literally can eat absolutely anything I want, as long as I don’t eat more than 2,200 calories a day.

I thought to myself yes I can do that. I downloaded the Lose It app just as he recommended and inserted my weight and desired goal. In the beginning I calculating everything. Literally! The first week was so disappointing I was eating and drinking so much junk that I was going over my calorie count before noon.

The second week I got serious, I cut out soft drinks completely and switched to coffee. I never drank coffee before but I needed, ok wanted, that caffeine. I still remember that week and how much cream and sugar I used. 🙂 But it wasn’t long until I just went to straight black coffee to save on those extra calories.

After a few more weeks I started seeing my weight go down and I wasn’t missing out on a lot of the food I really enjoy. This was the start of it all. I kept tracking calories and finally settled on a routine that fit me. Then I added exercise. It was summer by this point and I live very close to some excellent mountain bike trails. I kicked the dust off the bike and began riding at least 3 times a week. I love mountain biking and had forgotten how fun it is.

When the time changed, in the fall, I couldn’t go riding like I was so I had to find another excersise routine. I’ve done the gym before and meh I just can’t get inspired for that. I’m lazy and I know for a fact I wouldn’t commit. Instead I bought the Insanity workout DVD and did it all winter. I enjoyed not leaving the house and would do it immediatly after work every day. It just became a routine.

By the end of 2012 I was down to 144. By BMI standards this was right at the upper limit for my height and I was happy about that. As you know the more you lose the harder it gets. I’ve just kept the same plan since then and I’ve currently stabled out between 132 and 136. I’m no longer doing Insanity because it got boring. Now I still Mtn. bike, do some cardio kick boxing, and road riding with friends on the weekends.

Typically my daily weekday routine is Oatmeal or protein bar for breakfast, Special K cereal for lunch, and eggs for dinner. On the weekends I eat whatever. So no, I’m really eating healthy but it’s better than before. Then I do hard cardio at least three times a week.

In the end what worked for me was very small steps that eventually turned into a life style change. I’m sure this is the same for everyone but it’s so important to change forever. Not just for a month or two.

Working Remote With Kids

Ian just made a post sharing 9 tips for working remote with kids. I thought it was a great list and the tip for making exceptions reminded of a great memory I got to share with my youngest daughter a few months ago

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I couldn’t fit everything in the tweet but she came running into my office with a princess dress on and batting her eye lashes telling me I was cordially invited to a royal ball. It was unforgettable for me and a memory I will cherish forever.

These are the quick moments that I wouldn’t get to experience first hand if I didn’t work remote. While my kids are small I can’t imagine working in an office. They grow up to fast and then it’s gone. No turning back the clock on what you should have done.

Write A Love Letter

The holidays are approaching fast and what better gift to give than a “love letter” to your loved ones. When I say love letter I’m not meaning the sappy kind that you are probably thinking about. No, I am talking about a letter from you to your family that outlines all the very personal important things they need to know in the event of your untimely death.

This is something much more personal than a legal contract such as a Last Will but would still be highly important to your family. I have seen a few examples of this letter but it’s easy enough that you do not need a template.

What I did was include three primary sections. The first a few paragraphs telling them what they mean to you, how much you love them, etc. The middle would have important private information about yourself. For me and I assume all my readers almost everything is in the computer so having the login and the password for 1password would be essential. These are the only two passwords they would need and from here could get access to pretty much anything. Then the final section describing how you want your funeral. Your favorite songs, favorite Bible verses, basically anything that would be important to you for your funeral.

For those that handle all/most of the finances it will be important to also have contact information on any of your advisors and any investment accounts. I have heard stories of families where one primarily handles all finances and the other not knowing or caring. This means if the one handles everything passes then the other will be in for a crazy life change. Anything you can do to make this easier would continue to show your love.

Finally, I would also start a journal if you haven’t. Three out of four of my grandparents have passed away and none of them kept a journal. Of course in my younger years this wouldn’t have meant anything to me but now as I’m getting older I would love to read all the stories they had. I’ve personally been using DayOne for the past year and it works well. It’s nice to have a place to keep your private thoughts, images of important events, and memories that would be forever lost otherwise.